So many people have lost so many people. There’s no getting around that fact. I’m here to let you know that you are not alone. I’m here to share with you that your healing is not linear —so don’t expect yourself to not have a moment to cry, to not have a moment to break down, or to not have a moment to get yourself back together again. It’s OK. Conversely, it’s equally OK to not be OK. Without a doubt these are trying times.